We met in a little night club 15 years ago when I was a naive vanilla girl.
It was love at first sight,  he was and is my dream man.

We were in our early 20’s and the relationship blossomed quickly.
Everyone that knew us said we were made for each other and we were inseparable,  both of us spend all day at work on the phone to each other,  we couldn’t bare to be apart.
Within three years we were married.
It was a few days later I was to learn about his little kinks.

I remember on our honeymoon saying ” I’m surprised you have not requested something in bed that’s a little different,  as every guy I have been with had a little something that really turned them on”

That’s when his first little confession about enjoying bondage came out.
At this point I already knew he had a thing for PVC clothing,  and my suitcase had a shiny black PVC dress that we brought with us and a confession type sexy board game to play while on honeymoon.

Well after many drunken nights with that board game on a hot island I had learnt a lot about my new husband.  He was quite the kinky boy.
We tied each other up,  teased each other for hours and experimented with all the things he confessed to me that he wanted to try.

I have always been a “try anything once”
kinda girl and I wanted to make my man happy so I was interested in what made him tick,
I wanted to know how to make him melt,  and he showed me how.

I quickly realized that I didn’t enjoy being tied up and ordered about but I liked seeing him horny and squirming.
My man told me that I was more dominant than submissive and that he was more submissive but would be happy to switch to suit me depending on my preference.

He went over what that means and I was a little shocked that people actually do this sort of thing.  But it was fun and it drove him wild and I get to see him squirm so I embraced it.

That holiday was a big eye opener for me.
I Came back a changed girl,  and not just the ring on my finger.

Over the following few years we tried everything we could think of,  we explored  most parts of femdom and BDSM and I found what parts I was comfortable with and what parts I didn’t enjoy.

We experimented with spanking and he brought me my first riding crop.  But I quickly learnt that I couldn’t inflict pain to the man I loved,  so we dropped it from our games.

I found I enjoyed watching him squirm in bondage and this evolved into my favourite fetish tease and denial.

We were married for 6 years before we discovered chastity belts,  that was a huge game changer for both of us.
I discovered I enjoyed anything that made him horny,  that was my turn on.
Now I had a way to prolong that for as long as I liked.

I found the kinky games we play to make me feel empowered.  And that in itself was a turn on and a big confidence boost.
Eventually our ‘once every now and again’  play nights became more regular and started to spill into every day life.
I could get little jobs done around the house just by ordering him too.  And this is how I had my dream kitchen built.
The whole thing was built by a naked man in a chastity belt!

That was fun to watch.

As we approach our 10th anniversary our play times and daily life have become one and the same thing.  We never really made a decision to live a 24/7 femdom life style,  it just naturally happened,  much like most of our femdom games.

It changed me forever. What started off as me wanting to make my new husband happy had turned into a whole new lifestyle.  An amazing passionate, love filled lifestyle that made us who we are today.

Kara.